My life is all twisted up. I don't know if I'm wrong, right, or indifferent. I've gotten positive feedback from...neighbors, friends, AND family, and I don't FEEL wrong, but I could still be making a mistake. I'm good with those. A little background: I am married and have been married for several years. I have a few young-ish children. My husband recently had an affair, which was the first that I've known about. There could be more. In fact, he could be having one as I type this....